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female
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anonymous
writes:I am a lady aged 26 going out with a man aged 38 (he is divorced and has 2 children). I am in love with this man but the problem is I keep hearing stories about him and other girls. Today my good pal told me that a girl went to her to ask if my man was truly going out with me because he asked her out so she wanted to be sure he was not going out with anyone. When I called my boyfriend to ask him about it, he denied it saying they were all lies. Then I told him I would ask thea girl about it. He got so upset, he hasn't talked to me the whole day saying that he didn't like the way I reacted and that I think he is useless. But the problem is he always gets upset when I ask him such things, please help me because I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks so much. i will keep my eyes open.takecare
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 What happened when you asked the other girl?
I doubt your friend would lie to you. I think your boyfriend is practising the old "Best Defence is a Good Offense" strategy. Did his reaction deter you from asking the girl?
If he is not asking women out, he must be giving girls the wrong impression often enough for you to "keep hearing stories" and this is not a one-time misunderstanding. SOMETHING is not right here.
I can’t say whether he is playing around or not, but I can advise you to keep your eyes open. Sometimes when there is THAT much smoke, there is fire...
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