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writes:I can't get in the game, I don't understand how to take the right approach with all this dating game, yes there are so many beautiful women that I can have and they are also available around where I live,but my problem is I can't approach them because I'm struggling to find the right word to say the first time and then after I find myself being quiet or changing the subject. I mean, I need to be cocky or funny when I approach women, but the are somethings whch a person is not, so it's hard for to change my character... It would have been better if it was like getting straight to the point, telling her how I feel. but that approach has always brought me to many rejections, Why is it that men should go all trouble and in circle with a woman before getting what he wants, and if he will? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (24 June 2011):
 You've got to get to know these women first in a friendly non-sexual way then you can decide how to approach the ones you'd like to get to know better.
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reader, .Here.2.Help. +, writes (24 June 2011):
I'd suggest you don't think think of dating as a game. Girls don't usually enjoy getting played. You do not need to be cocky! I personally find it a turn off. Straight to the point is a good approach, but it depends how you do it. If you don't know the girl very well and bluntly say "I like you." It can be alittle scary and full on. You can use being quiet to your advantage, be the strong silent type and girls will be drawmn to you by their curiosity. I hope I helped?
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