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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem. I always seem to fall for people I have zero chance of being with like my close straight girl friends. I allow myself to fall even when I understand I have no chance. But here I am for the second time I find myself unable to keep my mind from thinking about one of best friends. Even day dreaming about being with her! I get too attached and too emotional about the littlest things like bonding over our favourite show or if she uses a heart emoticon in a text i stipidly start to think maybe she has feelings for me too! It dosen't help that i have been feeling painfully lonely lately. I just want the feeling of someone loving me so desperately. How can I move on and find someone I might actually have a chance with? Can anyone give me some advice please? Even if it's just too feel happy alone.
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reader, Plumb  +, writes (2 January 2013):
 Someone very close to me has the same problem as you do and the best advice I can give to you is, you'll know when you have found the right person and it's not uncommon for lesbians to fall for straight girls, or even best friends but unless you know that the girl likes you and likes girls as well then I'd try to let go of that feeling. I understand you want someone to love and be with but sometimes it's better to wait for it too happen and if not then try finding a group of girls that are the same as you.
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