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anonymous
writes:I was dating this guy for three weeks and he just broke up with me yesterday by setting his facebook relationship status to not listed. I wrote him a message saying honestly how i felt and i no longer want to talk to him. I just wish i knew why he broke up with me? Should i ask him? cause a couple days ago the last time he called me he said that he loved us being togeher and that he definitely didn't want to break up. I feel as if i did something wrong. Which i didn't. our first date was two weeks ago and we were talking everyday but we both was to busy to see each other and he lived a half a mile away. My heart is hurting cause i miss him and i still believe what he said on his last voice message. Am i stupid? The reason why he didn't see me was because he didn't have his license. just the other day he said that we were going to get together this week. IDK what to think! I wish that i knew how he felt about me or if he misses me. But i wouldn't find that out in a week!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): You were only dating for three weeks...that is not a relationship my any means. It's better he told you now than one year later. That is what dating is all about..you date to find out if you want something more with the person and obviously after dating you for those three weeks he decided that he no longer wanted too and his has that right.
Also, you should work on not falling for guys so fast....three weeks is not enough time to know anybody. Maybe you have some underlined issues emotionally, that you need to address before dating anyone else. If you want to ask him why he no longer wanted to date you, that would be fine, but just don't nag him about it because, seriously, it was only three weeks.
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reader, The wife listener  +, writes (21 July 2010):
Do you know sweetheart, that's there's nothing more attractive to a guy than confidence in girl. That doesnt mean you have to be the most stunning girl on the planet or the most clever. Chasing this guy will knock your confidence more than it has already been knocked. Who knows what the reason is? The answer though is to believe in yourself, you obviously really like him and are feeling like you've been deserted. You can get rid of this pain yourself, Speak to him on facebook, but be cool about it, try not to show that your hurting. sometimes this can be seen as clingy or desperate. I'm not saying you are but make sure he doesnt see that. If your controlled and appear happy, that's an attractive feature in itself. Even if it doesnt get him might, which it might well do, It will make you feel better. Give it a try
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