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writes: Hey. I really messed things up with my girlfriend and she hasn't talked to me in 4 days. Basically, we got into this big fight about her ex and I started yelling at her and she was just crying and for some reason that just got me angrier. And I wanted to leave but she blocked the door to the room, because she wanted me to calm down so we can talk and I threatened to push her if she didnt move out of the way. Obviously I didn't mean it and I would never put my hands on her like that but I guess that really freaked her out. She took all her thngs and left my place and I've been calling her and went to her place and shes been ignoring me. I know her dad was an abusive drunk and her roommate according to her roommate, I reminded her of her dad. I just want to talk to her and to apologize cause I love her so much and I don't want this to break us up. I feel like if we don't talk it out soon, it'll just get harder for us to move past this. How do I get her to talk to me?
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reader, srp_x  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 Obviously she is very shocked by what you did, but this dos'nt mean shes given up on you. She just wants you to keep trying to talk to her, girls like it! Just give it time and when she eventually comes round to talking to you, im sure you will sort things out if you love eachother that much. Just tell her how much you love her and dont want to hurt her you want to protect her!
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reader, srp_x +, writes (25 November 2010):
Obviously she is very shocked by what you did, but this dos'nt mean shes given up on you. She just wants you to keep trying to talk to her, girls like it! Just give it time and when she eventually comes round to talking to you, im sure you will sort things out if you love eachother that much. Just tell her how much you love her and dont want to hurt her you want to protect her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): ok well shes probably just scared because your aggressiveness brought back memories from her past that she would rather forget, saying that though she should know you well enough to know that it was a mistake and that you would never do her any harm, maybe she feels like she has over reacted and is embarrassed by the way she has dealt with it.
Further more Never throw the EX back in her face he is an EX for a reason, try sending her a letter explaining that you were wrong to get so upset over something so minor and that you value your relationship with her and tell her how much she means to you. then apologizes only once more for your anger and explain that you feel offended that she would think you could be capable of hurting her.
best of luck :)
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