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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello there! I need a bit of guidance on a situation. About 3 months ago I went on a date with a lovely man, 4 years older than myself - we got on absolutely great and there was definitely some chemistry there.The date ended on a positive note, he kissed me (which was slightly awkward because it took me by surprise) and we afterwards, agreed to meet up again sometime. But it hasn't happened yet :( However, he has actually been in contact with me 2/3 times via text and Facebook. Each time asking if i'd like to meet up the following week, I always say yes because I could never pass on such opportunity with someone as nice as him. He never really seems confident in asking me though. He'll say things like:'We should meet up sometime :)' 'if you want to that is?' Each time we've spoken about it, he's said he'll get in touch nearer the time to arrange it. But then he doesn't bother to contact me, which is really frustrating because it builds my hopes up and then nothing comes of it.I really like him and i'm fairly sure the feeling is reciprocated. Otherwise he wouldn't suggest meeting up again, right?The thing with me is I am very laid back and tend to hide my feelings. Maybe because of this, he doesn't think i'm interested? I just want to move things forward with him! and I don't know how.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 I think you should set up a date. Instead of general "I'd like that" to his inquiries, say "lets get together for dinner Saturday night." Lock him into something. When you are out, and things are going well, casually say that you were concerned he didn't like you because he never made those plans like he said he would. Say it with a smile and watch his reaction. Good luck.
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