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male
age
30-35,
*ensativeguy010
writes: Hey guysI'm now dating a girl I've always had feelings for and i do believe i love her. We are both very happy and we connect so very well its uncanny. I want to make sure she will keep growing stronger feelings for me but am a little scared that because i'm such a nice guy that i will be overly nice and sweet that she second guesses her feelings and she loses all interest. I give her lots of space and i don't even text her unless she texts me. I kind of just let her lead the relationship a little bit and play off of her "moves" so I don't be too clingy. We have a good healthy sexual relationship and spend the night with each other a lot(most of the time her idea). I always do little things for her like when she goes to work in the morning i will make the bed or clean her room before i leave. So as far as I'm concerned i think I'm doing well. I just want to make sure I'm not being overly sweet or too clingy?Thank you! :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 December 2012):
You're doing great! You're feeling that whole "out of control" thing that love does to people with a slight side order of insecurity!
You're totally fine! Enjoy the relationship! Don't be anxious when time passes, and keep doing nice things for her and let her reciprocate!
Second, take it nice and slow! Enjoy this time! Savor it like a good wine. You're worth having a beautiful woman by your side, and she's lucky to have you too!
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