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writes:I don't want sex.I am 23 and I dated my boyfriend for 6 years before we broke up for a number of reasons. After a year we got back together and when we did I did not want to have sex. I had no explanation for why, I just did not think about it or feel that I wanted any, which is odd because before we broke up, we had a very healthy sex life. I forced myself to have sex with my boyfriend in a bid to make him happy, but it did not feel nice and I actually felt violated by tthe experience. My boyfriend has been going down on me in a bid to reignite my sex drive, and although it does make me orgasm, I don't enjoy the overall experience and i still don't want to have sex afterwards, I have to fake arousal during the penetration. Now it has been six months and my boyfriend is very hurt by my attitude toward sex. I have tried to fake it, and tried watching porn and drinking first and really done my best to take an interest in sex again, but nothing works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): I don't want it either, my husband of 20+ years drives me insane wanting it, every other day! I have no desire for it at all, and I dread it every time he asks... He carries on like a child sulking and saying I don't want him anymore, and it just stresses me more. I'm going through the menopause and I keep telling him but he insists on making it about him.....I just want to scream!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): if you dont want sex with him babe you cant help it dont feel bad or anything.
hopefully if he loves you he will be ok with it but is it a case of you dont like it because your not in love with him anymore because this has been the reason somtimes.
mabye you just have had to much sex take a break and it may just come back to you and you will want it again dont force yourself into it as this will make you want it less and less just do it when you feel ready it may come back if i doesnt then just dont have sex, a strong relastionship can last without it
best of luck
xx
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