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writes:Hiya Im new to all this but I just wanted an outsiders opinion on the situation.Well theres this guy (I'll call him S) and me and my friends have started to hang around with his friends quite a bit recently and we've been having the best time the past few weeks. I've always thought S was very good looking and funny but as he is a couple of years younger than me I never really thought of him in that way.The first night we all went out as a big group we ended up back at a friends house and we ended up having a few kisses. The next day I was a little worried as he is younger and worried what people would think and I think a lot of people realised I was worried about the age thing - even though its no big deal (Im 20 hes 18)!!Anyway so the week after the same happened again we had some kisses and cuddles and I realised that I do genuinely like S and could actually see myself with him. Since the last time we got together weve seen each other a few times and while I've acted normal with him he seems really quiet and in a way I feel hes trying to avoid talking to me. I don't know if hes just backing off cos he doesnt like me in that way or if its because hes heard of my initial worries about the age... I just dont know how to tackle him on the issue!Help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, soraya +, writes (21 June 2008):
you have said that you all hung out as a group so why dont you ask some of his friends and see what they say. if they dont know then the only way you will find out is to ask him, be honest and tell him you had worries at the beginning but you overcame thhen because you actually have feelings for him. goodluck x
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