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male
age
36-40,
*onny
writes:i had a breakup with my ex about four months back.i have moved on into a rebound relationship after that. my new gf really cares about me. i never had a very comforting relationship with my ex, but we shared some really wonderful time together. my problem is that i just cant stop thinking about her, i get very disturbed even by the mention of her name in front of me, i dont really know as to what do i want, but i really want her to call me. we are in the same college so i cant keep away from her as well. i m really suffering from the last four months. what can i do to forget her. plz plz help me.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 First, get forgetting her off your mind. It's not going to happen. The only way, which can be dangerous, is hypnosis and have everything about the person erased, without causing harm to other memories.
I just answered another one like this. What you want to do is treasure the experience you had with her. Stop focusing on the break up. You had good experiences, just as any other experience be grateful for having the opportunity for that time.
You're with a new girl, she deserves more of you than the pieces left over after the pain. Just because you're hurt doesn't mean you should pass that on to someone else on the rebound. It's not fair to her and not fair to you to be somewhere you really aren't ready to be. So you need to be honest with yourself and be honest with her whether or not this new relationship can work at this time.
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