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anonymous
writes:I'm actually very worried now, this guy i met last night he came back to my flat and we didn't sleep together. We just made out a lot and then he slept in the same bed as me since it was late.. Well, I was talking to my mum today about it, but said it indirectly so she assumed what i did happened with my flatmate instead..Then she said, well she shouldn't be bringing strangers back when you don't really know them, if anything goes wrong you can't track them down easily. Then i said it isn't that bad, but she said that person knows where she is staying and what room number she is, which can be dangerous. To top it all of, she said but i know you would never do that so you don't have to worry! I just felt completely guilty, because i never do that she's right, but i did.And now after her saying about them knowing my room and where i live, what my name is, where i study and such worries me!! I don't even know where the guy lives, what university he studies at, or really anything but his name, he was very mysterious and stupidly i like that. Should i be worried? I have this paranoid feeling now that whilst i'm in my room his watching me! I just don't know if i'm overreacting, or if i should be worried??
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 November 2011):
 Now you know better for next time. Not all guys are stalkers or psychos, so don't go crazy with worry.
In the future, don't let guys spend the night unless you know them. Even if nothing happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2011): I would not let yourself worry about it unless you notice something that actually confirms your suspicions. For now take it as a lesson learned and try to concentrate on your studies.
For your safety you should always have your door locked when you are home alone anyway, I have a complete obsession with making sure doors are locked!
If you have any doubt then inform the police x
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