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I hear rumours that he is dating me for the sake of experience, what am I to believe?

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Question - (24 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ouisee92x writes:

Hello Guys, Girl of 15/16, I'm not a virgin but hey we all make mistakes. I've been seeing this lad, same age. lets say he's called Craig, well i really like him, but there are rumours going round that he only wants me to have the experience of havin a girlfriend and he wants to go for another girl after seeing what it's like with me, i don't belive this, well i don't want to.

Because i know this girl is only close friends with him. i just know she is also the sort of girl to hurt me. i don't know why but shes like that.I want to try with him and he says he likes me, i jsut keep thinkin about all this hearsay going roudn and i really dont no whether to belive it. i really do like this lad. i want to try so bad but what do i do. Can i have some help. Thank You x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008):

Rumors are gossip. Gossip is pure poison. Ask your boyfriend directly about this and when you do pay careful attention to his answer and his demeanor, his body language not just his words. Words can lie. Actions speak truth.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008):

It's possible that he just wants experience, but you shouldn't believe stupid rumours that go round, that's what they're for.. Just to hurt people and turn others against them etc. So ignore the rumours and try and find out what craig is really like. You need to make the decision yourself and decide whether you think he's like that.

Good luck! Keep us posted.

xx Hope xx

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (24 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntPeople your age do a lot of stupid things that really hurt people. This includes such lovely things as dating on a bet and using people to get some XP.

It is only a rumour but is there anything in his behaviour to make you believe it?

Do you know if perhaps you have developed a reputation for being easy? He would after all hardly pick a difficult girl if he wants to quickly gain experience.

Sit yourself down and try to see the affair through the eyes of an outsider, how did he approach you, why did he approach you, has he made any significant commitments, how is he to this other girl, is he impatient with you to go further and further, does he respect it when you say no.

Still sometimes you just have to take a chance, sure, you could get your heart broken, but at least you will have tried.

Take a deep breath and decide if he is worth any tears that might follow.

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