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41-50,
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writes:We have been keeping in touch by email, but I want to call him and I'm pretty nervous, I call him the other day and I just was like chicken s**** and pretend being some else. I felt so bad I couldn't find the courage to talk to him, cuz I didn't know how he would react.I mean one thing is email and another is voice (phone). What can I say to him, after a year of not hearing my voice? How can I start my convo, and the other thing is I believe he's with some else so Idk how will react mainly at least to know how to move on if he's really playing or what? Please advice me!
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 You didn't say why you wanted to call him. Are you trying to find out if it's ok to start the relationship again? Or do you just want to find out if he's moved on?
Anyway, the first thing is, talk to him like an old friend. You know, how ya doin', nice to hear your voice, that sort of thing. Because that's what you are, isn't it?
After you've tested the waters, it depends on his reaction and what you want to do. If your aim is to meet him, you could suggest getting together sometime for lunch (not dinner) to catch up. Otherwise, I'm not really sure what you should say.
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