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30-35,
*eartxbrokenxgurl
writes:ok it happened in 3rd grade i was datin a guy named anthony and me n him were the best of friends when we were dating we dated for a day then he broke up with me n then the next day at school he asked me back out n sinced i liked him i said yes n then the next day he would break up with me again n i was wonderin y n then the next day he would ask me back out stupid me i said yes this pattern went on for 6 days we went out 5 days dated then the last time i said im sick n tired of u breakin up with me every other day n then askin me back out the next day its over for good n i went on the hill cryin my eyes out at school i was so sad i thought he was the one well im in 7th grade now n its been 3-4 yrs since ive seen him n i saw him at the skatin rink or shuld i say he saw me when i was goin to my friend he said hey i kno you jenna n i i was shocked cuz he reliezed me 1st n i said anthony n then i went to my friend n said i just say my 3rd grade ex boyfriend anthony n she wanted to see him well hes changed n didnt look the same but oo well then everytime i pasted him on the floor he would start making out with his ex g.f only when i was passin him n he kept on flirtin with me n my friends were like he must still like u i guess my ? is does he want me back n if he does shuld i give him another try i mean its been 3 to 4 yrs he could have changed but i dont want to get hurt like i did from him in 3rd grade helpppp me
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reader, stars224 +, writes (16 January 2007):
Absolutely not!
This boy sounds like a complete idiot who likes playing with girl's emotions to make himself feel good. I dont think you should go anywhere near him. Let him play his little games with some other girl. you don't deserve to be hurt. I promise you that you will meet some nice guys as you get older, and love is around the corner when you least expect it. but not from players like this guy. I don't think he has grown up at all. Have the respect for yourself to stay away from him, and find someone who will treat you like the special person that you are.
good luck.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 It's definitely true that he will have grown up a lot since the third grade, as have you, but he's still young and ultimately no relationship comes without the risk of getting hurt. If you really want to get back with him you need to deal with the possibility that he might hurt you. Equally he might not. Maybe he really is the love of your life and maybe he's not. These are all questions none of us can answer for you although I wish we could. My best advice is just to play it by ear and see what happens. You're so young, it makes no sense to rush into things. Hope this helps.
CD
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