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writes: I think i do have trust issues but there are things that my boyfriend did to make me not trust him. He's said to me why would he stay with me for so long and why would he always try to work things out with me, so should i just let go about the girls that i think he might be interested in or what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo Anon, u mean your boyfriend told u the same thing? I've been with him for a little over a year too. I don't really think he will go and cheat on me, but then again anything could happen. I don't think he will do anything but just that he seems interested, so yea i don't really know wut to think either. He told me he didn't want me to know about the emails becuz i would get mad and fight with him and he didn't want to go through it (we fight all the time), it sorta makes sense but not really becuz i think that just causes me to think he's doing something when he really isn't, i asked him if i could read the emails and he finally showed them to me later, and there didn't seem to be having anything going on. Anyways thanks and good luck to you too Anon!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): You know what, its funny, i have exactly the same problem as you and i got back exactly the same asnswer! How long have you been together? I've been with my guy for just over a year and recently he's been doing things to make me think he was playing away. Texts from a girl he barely even knows and didn't tell me about untill i probed him about it. I dont know wtah to think but i have no hard proof so im going to wait a little longer and try and trust him to see if anything else happens. If it does, demand a straight answer from him and if he gives you crap again, end it, thats what im going to do. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): I agree with Tinkz, life is too short. If we only live once then why should your life be like this. Worry and tears. Talk things over with him and if things don't improve then move on and meet someone who you deserve and who deserves a lovely person like you.
Take care
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 Sweetie, i feel you! But let me break it down, If he does it once it's his fault if he does it again it's your fault!
If he has done it more times than that then you need to think if he is worth the effort!
Is he worth your tears or a broken heart!
I have been there, i loved a man for 2 years and i let him get away wth murder, he had 2 children while we were together and i still stayed, i was put in to a Mental institute for depression!
No man is worth it if he can't stay true to you!
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