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writes:i have been married for 6 months and i am living in australia but i am english. my husband and i were in love but i got married so i could stay in Australia.He is so in love with me and i loved him but i have fallen for someone else. The new guy i have known for around a year and i have been seeing him for around 2 months and he is all i think about. i have to stay with my husband for another 2 and a half years for me to get residency but i just want to be with the other guy. The other guy wants to be with me too. there is a possibilty i can get sponsorship to stay in the country with my job.. do i risk my marriage????? HELP!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (20 November 2008):
 You seem a bit flakey to me. You were so in love with your husband, but a mere 4 months after making the ultimate commitment you are already cheating on him!?!?! You are now so in love with this new guy!?!?! What makes you think that this new love will last? What makes you think that 6 months or a year from now you wont be cheating on him as well and be 'so in love' with the next guy. I dont think you know what love is! I think you have been infatuated, but I do not think you have ever been in love. Infatuation is very differant for love, but is quite often mistaken for love. You are cheating on your husband. You are lying and sneaking around behind his back and using him in the worst way. You need to be honest and leave your husband so that he can begin the healing process and get over the hurt of commiting to someone that didnt love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): I think it is horrible that you were "in love" when you got married and already six months later are cheating on him. You sound like a very selfish person, and I am not sure that either guy deserves someone like you. All you are thinking about is how this will affect you. You don't show any concern for this husband you supposedly "loved."
Are you going to hook up with the other guy and then cheat on him with someone else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): be honest its the best way to be!!!!! if you want the other guy tell your husband and let things work themselves out
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