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anonymous
writes:Hi, Im married since a year and half, my husband loves me a lot and I have satisfy him sexually.... My problem is, I really love to have sex with m hubby and its me who always start first, when he starts to kiss and all I feel so good but after we start having sex I don't feel what I should. But I pretend to be satisfied. I really feel bad. Please suggest..... Reply to this Question
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (25 January 2010):
Think of what YOU would like to make things better, anything from different positions, to porn, to fantasies about others. Men like to explore, so I bet if you asked him if he thought one of your girlsfriends was cute and what he thought she looked like naked, etc., it would heat things up quite a bit. Or if you share something you just happened to come across on the internet (but actually something you really looked for that you thought was sexy, like a good story), it would turn you on and he would be turned on that you were.
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 Honesty in the bedroom is definetly the best policy. Woman sometimes confuse ejaculation for satisfication. I usaually finish (ejaculate) during sex, but that doesn't mean I let satisfied. So don't be suprised if he too is not satisfied with your love sessions.On that note, you are not simply dating this man. This is your husband, and I suspect that you would like to spend the rest of your life with him. You owe it to you (and him) to let him know how he is or is not satisfying you in the bedroom.Guide him. Show him. Teach him. Everyone has certain things that get them going in the bedroom.Your husband cannot know what you do not tell him. Good Luck!Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): You should feel bad, you are lying to the man you love.This is such a biggg mistake that so many women make. As a man i just cant understand why you do this?Plan and simple this isnt being an adult. You are married, if you cant talk to him then who can you talk to?I know that you must be shy and uncomfortable discussing it with him, but this cant go on ok. Start slowly, tell him where on your face and neck you like to be kissed. There now sex is a bit more fun for you. Its that easy, next work down your body and make sure that you give too.Trust me he will appreciate you telling him what you like, and you will have much better sex.All the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010): Dont pretend anything. If its not working for you, you have to find a gentle way of telling him otherwise you will just end up being unhappy. You know what sort of things feel good for you, so concentrate on those things and ask him to do more of them. Tell him how nice it feels and how good he is, after a while things will improve.
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