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writes:So, there are these three guys...It's not just like I'm desperate for a boyfriend and I've narrowed it down to these three guys, I actually really like them all. So, Guy 1 is in my class at school. He is in my form. We've been in the same class for just over 3 years now. Out of all the guys in my class, he's probably my closest friend. We talk on Facebook quite a lot, usually around midnight - 1am, because he's usually up late and I have trouble sleeping. At out school, they used to have these pots of chips you can get, with cheese melted on the top, at the canteen. I used to buy them, eat the cheesy ones, and give him the rest of the pot. He used to borrow money off me sometimes, when he had forgotten his lunch money, then pay me back the next day. He always jokes around and he's a fun guy, great sense of humour. I'm just worried we might be stuck in the friend zone now? He's good at maths, too, which I'm pretty bad at, so asking him to help me could be a way to get closer?Guy 2 was in my class at primary school for 3 years, before I moved schools. Now, at secondary school, he is in a different form, but the same year. This year, he's in my Chemistry class, and our teacher paired us as lab partners. We get on really well and have a joke around when we have to do experiments. He broke his finger recently, so I had to help him when pour some of the chemicals in different tubes and stuff, and it sounds stupid, but it felt like a film moment, you know, like, the hands touching and us smiling at each other. He's so nice and funny too, but not very academic, from what I know. He doesn't concentrate much in Chemistry or our other science classes, but I think he's good at some other subjects. Guy 3 is another guy in a different class, but still in my year. He's in my science classes too, and a couple of other classes, I think? I don't know him all that well, but he's made eyes at me a few times. 2 weeks ago, our chemistry teacher told everyone to gather round a desk behind mine, to show everyone someone's experiment. I turned my chair round, so I was facing away from my desk, leaning against it. Guy 3 came and sat on the edge of my table, so his legs were sort of next to my shoulder. He had one hand on the edge of the table, where my side was leaning, and he was leaning on that arm, so my shoulder and upper arm were leaning against his lower arm. It's hard to explain, but hopefully you get it! He's pretty funny, he's more popular than the other two, he's pretty good at most subjects.Basically, I've flirted a little with each of them, but I don't know what to do with each of them, who to talk to, who to flirt with. Please, as much advice as possible? I'm a pretty confident girl
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 At your young age, I suggest you juggle the three and not give the matter another thought.....
Good luck....
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reader, supermum +, writes (10 December 2011):
 Right. My advice? Stay away from all of them. (In a romantic sense). You have three good friends there, and when you start dating one, you risk loosing the other two. And aside from that, if it goes wrong with the one you choose, you may have lost them all.You have a good thing going here, three good friends. As you grow up and leave school, you will really begin to appreciate the value of good friends.When you no longer have to choose between them, THEN you will know who is right for you. But all the while you are playing them off against eachother in your mind you run the risk of loosing them.I hope that made some sort of sense! I have not long woken up :)
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reader, ed357 +, writes (10 December 2011):
you should choose, by whoever is the nicest guy. There is a boy in my year who's really nice but he's never had a girlfriend for some reason probably because he's got stuck in the friend zone.So try to choose one as quickly as possible before they become really friendly. go for boy one!
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (10 December 2011):
 Your still very young, and have all the time in the world. So just continue to be their freinds for now, and if it's meant to be you will end up with the right guy in the end :) Try to focus on your school work and not let boys be the main focus of your thoughts, and I would also try not to be too confident as that may come across as arrogant to some people and put them off.
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