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writes:Hi, I am just writing as I have been with my boyfriend for four years. I love him more than anything. We fit perfectly, have loads of fun and joke around all the time. All my friends and family constable say how lovely he is and hope we always stay together. I always orgasm from foreplay but rarely from sex. This is my first serious partner with regular sex. However I never want to have sex and don't get turned on by the thought of sex. We still have sex often but only because I feel I should, and I do initiate it. Often I find it hard to get into even thoe I usually climax at the end. Is there something wrong with me. Or is something wrong with the relationship, i met him so young I just don't know if there's a problem when everything else is so perfect. Am I just over thinking it all. Any advice would be very helpful
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reader, aster  +, writes (26 December 2011):
Claraw1 is right. You are thinking too much about it. Its pretty okay to be happy with what you derive [pleasure from as long as both you and your partner are not harmed. Did your boyfriend tell you anything in this matter? If he did then you could let him know. Else, just have fun and dont fret over it !
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (26 December 2011):
 Many women, about 99% of women do not and never orgasm from sex. It's actually very hard to orgasm from sex, so there is nothing wrong with you at all. Being intimate and even having sex in a loving relationship is not always about the end goal of reaching an orgasm, but more about sharing and showing your love with your boyfriend. You are overthinking way too much and putting too much emphasis on orgasming. Make it about sharing your love with each other, and relax, everything will be fine. Good Luck
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