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writes:Alright so long story (not short), I really REALLY like this guy (we'll call him X.) Anyways, I've liked him since September, and he was in my class for drama last semester (high school.) Now it's the new semester, and I have zero classes with him, except for drama again this semester (art school.) Anyways, last semester we had a show, and behind the curtains between every scene, we would always sit together, and there were SO many little things that he did. (Btw, I've already known him for 3 years, and just started liking him this year.)Alright-some examples,I was sitting on the ground (during the show..behind the curtains), and he was sitting on a bench right in front of me..(literally one inch--it was squishy back there) and I look up and he's staring RIGHT at me. And I was like, "What?" with a laugh. And then he tunes in again and we both start smiling. There were a lot more things--but it will take too long to name them all. Anyways-near the end of the show, I was about to turn to the right to go around the curtains to bow, and then I decided to go left with a few other people, and X completely followed me, and then when we were on stage I quickly looked around for him, and I didn't see him. All of a sudden, some thing pushes between my right side, and X is standing there, and grabs my hand (for when we bow) and it was just so cute! There have also been other times where my friend and I have been selling stuff in the cafeteria just the two of us, and he'll come right up and sit beside me, even if he was hanging out with his guy friends (who are my friends too.) I also had to work with X on another project last semester from another class, and we actually bonded. Our project dealt with money issues and divorce etc.. and one day we both started talking about our families to each other etc.) Alright, so now you know what happened last semester, the reason I'm writing this question-is because I'm having trouble with second semester. I just barely get to see him anymore, and I'm starting to get the feeling that he's giving up, and I HATE that! Please give me some advice..I am just so upset. This semester, even though he has drama again, we're doing different projects, so he's always in another drama room.(And we rotate drama rooms.)Anyways, there is this one day where my drama class is actually right beside his, and so I get my drama partner to hang out with me in the hallway by the water fountain, and one time he walked outside and went straight to the water fountain, and while drinking he stopped three times to look up at me and smile, and then we started laughing etc. And it just sucks because that LITTLE thing, made my entire week. And I just don't know what to do. I need to find a way to talk to him. Also, we use to have the same lunch, but now we don't, so the only way I can sometimes see him, is if I skip that class I have-which is during his lunch, so I can see him. (And I did it on friday, and he actually came over to out table, and talk to this guy who we both share as a friend. (And I happened to be sitting right beside him. Anyways so X is just standing right behind my chair and keeps swaying side to side; repeatedly bumping into my chair, and then I kinda nudged and hit his leg, and I was like, "Stop it!" (jokingly) and then he would randomly hit the chair, just to see my reaction...and that was the only conversation we had for the entire week. And just before the bell went, I happened to be talking about something--and then he just looks straight at me out of sheer interest and just asks me who I'm talking about--and I tell him. So that was our contact. Alright, so just before I end this very long message (which I apologize for..and my terrible grammar) I'd like to say that my friends have been telling me that I should tell this one other guy who we're both friends with that I like X. (This guy is EXTREMELY trustworthy..110% he won't tell X I like him, even if they are friends.) And I was just thinking that maybe he could talk about me, when I'm not around etc. (Put a good word in, you know?)Should I tell the guy? And from what it sounds like, do you think he still likes me this semester? (Even a little bit.) P.S. I really want this guy friend to arrange a big movie night or something, because X has this other group of guys that he usually hangs out with a lot outside of school, (don't get me wrong he's really close with the guys that I'm close with too...) but he hangs out with these other guys a lot as well..so I've never done anything on the weekend with X. If that guy planned a movie night and invited X, I'm just wondering if it would be random, but since they're friends I guess it would be ok?...Oh man...I have no idea what to do.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Bite the bullet and invite him to go out to lunch with you! Or coffee, or go for a walk in the park when the weather's nice.......Good luck!
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