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female
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30-35,
*uperbunny
writes:I have recently got myself into such a mess, and it's making me feel even worse than I did before.Admittedly, I have very low self esteem and do not value myself as highly as I should do - which causes a lot of problems when it involves the opposite sex.My ex boyfriend of five months was the first person I had unprotected sex with (I am on the pill). He told me he got checked out for STI's between every sexual partner which I really respected him for and I had been checked out and was fine.Anyway, we split up in January and I got together with a guy a couple of weeks ago who completely used me for sex and stupidly we weren't safe. Anyway, as soon as I realised he was using me, we split and I went to get checked. I found out I had got chlamydia - which as you can imagine hit me - how could I have been so stupid? Anyway, I have been treated for it and everything is fine now.Anyway, the clinic told me I had to inform both boyfriends of this, even though I was pretty certain it was the most recent lad as he was a complete player but to be responsible I told my previous partner who went completely off the handle and I was like "Well, if you got checked like you said you did we'll be fine because I know I was fine," and he just kept going like "Hmmm....." which makes me wonder why the hell he lied to me and why the hell did I fall for it??I'm just dying to know why I have no self worth and no self respect for my emotions and my body?? I guess this was just a painful wake up call... :(
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (4 March 2009):
 You just need to use condoms in the future and have respect for your body! Make a change now and don't be used anymore! X
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