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writes: i am in a relationship of 8 years and have 2 kids. we have hit a big wall. snice i have put on weight because of child birth we do have sex not because i don't want to it's him. he want talk to me and is alway cranky. i think he is cheating too.please help me what should i do? or how can i fix this Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): Sorry but I cant believe the last respense
She says 'He was always home on time to babysit that night.'
How can he possibly 'babysit his own kid?????? Surely he is as responsible for them as you....do you ever say you are babysitting your own child????
then she says
'And when the weight started to go he was so proud of me and started fancying me all over again'
My God, shows how much he loves her doenst it...God help her if she has an accident and her appearance changes or God forbid she ages....he wont fancy her anymore...
Sad sad sad that we live in such a world where women are judged entirely on looks...if he's cheating on you cause of this who wants him anyway...leave the loser
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): Have you tried losing the weight?
I got in this situation and my husband was so supportive about me going to weight watchers. It gave me a night out, away from the kids with other women. He was always home on time to babysit that night. And when the weight started to go he was so proud of me and started fancying me all over again, bought me new clothes to show off etc.
Also remember he is probably finding it hard having the kids take up all your time. Try thinking about it from his point of view and let him think your doing this just for him so he knows you care about him as well as the kids..
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