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Does he fancy me? or am I just being silly?

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Question - (8 October 2006) 8 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi, i wanna know if this boy fancies me, he's the same age as me (15). and he txts me about once a week just to talk. we see eachother everyday at school and whenever he sees me he pokes me and smiles, i smile back aswell. we are friends and have known eachother for years.

im just not sure if he's flirting with me or not. would you call this flirting or not?

he says to his mates infront of me "she fancies an old man and she lost her viginety to him" for a joke. and i find it funny so im just laughing. and he says stuff like that and he says to his mates infront of me, "she fancies the boy over there". and loadsa stuff like that.

is that flirting or am i just being silly thinking he fancies me???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008):

I think he does like you as hes always tring to poke you -(hes trying to get close to you physically), if he flirts with you then why not try and ask him out? cinema? you dont necessarily have to go on your own, invite his friends along with your friends, both of you wil feel morw comfortable in case of awkward silence which sometimes happens when two people fancy each other and dont know what to say to not sound stupid.

Anyway, i wish you all the best with this boy :)

Good luck! X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

he bums of you girl but just be carefull there could be another side to him ???:s

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008):

hey just answering this question....he does sound to fancy you if all the information in the text is correct

but are u willing torisk it, i mean what do you actually want to acheive here?

if you have nothing to loose and say you were interested in taking the relationship further then go for it and tell him how you feel

remember friends are more important so if you have a healthy relationship with this guy then stay friends and have fun he seems really nice!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008):

he fancies u go for it he is to scared to tell u and the reason he keeps making comments on you fanciying some one else is to see youe reacton please tell him u like him i bet you you get together immidiatly

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

if his mates always joke around saying you fancy that lad over there they be watching to see if you give of any signals saying that you actually fancy that person.Since you have know this guy for a long time and are friends he might be scared to tell you how he feels because he doesnt wnt to loost his friendship with you Because realy you havent give him proper sign of likeing him yet.Be extra nice to him in the group, laught at jokes more and louder than everybody else.give him an occasional flirty smile. flirt like crazy but only with him.if he doesnt give any sign of liking you in a girlfriend way within a mouth move on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007):

i think he likes you, but maybe only as a friend?

well, my guy friends are like that, but i know they don't like me (or do they? haha)

but anyways theres some potential there

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006):

oh this guy so obviously fancies you. he's constantly flirting but if you fancy him then he has no idea. he's making these jokes to test your reaction. i say let him know if you fancy him and you could get together!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006):

Awww... so sweet.I think he does fancy you. But do you fancy him? Maybe he's too shy to tell you. There's only one way to find out. Ask him straight up. But maybe if you ask him and it turns out he doesn't fancy you things could get awkward between you. But that's a risk you'll have to take I'm afraid. If you want to know if he fancies you or not you'll have to ask him. Or you could just keep quiet and wait and see how it goes. Maybe he'll pluck up the courage to tell you one day. (If you wanna wait that long). Good luck. xx

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