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anonymous
writes:I have a dilemma. I've been trying to conceive for two years no luck. I have been for scans and my Dr found that I have cysts on my left ovary,Yet he says it's normal. I'm 31 and I'm starting to suffer with depression from all the disappointment. Any help or advice on how to get through this. My heart is breaking. I feel like I'm letting my partner down.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 March 2017):
 You need to stop beating yourself up, the cysts are more than likely normal and it could be either you or your partner with fertility issues. It could also be that you are trying to hard and you need to just relax and take a break from trying for a baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2017): "I feel like I'm letting my partner down."
It's very possible that he could be the one with fertility issues. If he hasn't been checked out, the he should see his doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2017): My deepest sympathy to you for your condition!When trying for a baby that doesnt arrive on time, you find yourself going through an increasing cycle of despair and bereavement.You have translated this as having let your boyfriend down but this is an inaccurate interpretation of your crises because you havent let him down at all!A watched pot never boils as the saying goes.Similarly the desired baby doesnt arrive when you wait for him/her.So to alleviate your personal stress you might as well tell yourself its zero chance and slow down on the self hate.Easier said than done but therapy can help.Meanwhile you and your partner be as risky as you like in your sex life and enjoy healthy pursuits for leisure outside of the bedroom.Do you have endometriosis?It can be painful, debilitating and impair your fertility!It doesnt mean you love your partner any less though.Have you had a discussion with your doctor regarding this!Can you see a fertility expert for both you and your guy.Some guys are more than willing to look into the possibility of getting their partner pregnant by enhanced methods if need be.Also, dont close your mind to giving an unloved child a chance of a better life via adoption.It can take up to ten years to complete the process so start enquiries now.Whatever happens dont equate the monthly nonpregnancy with failure or success as this is very soul destroying.You will have a child when all the circumstances are correct for you.
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