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writes:Im feeling really down in my marriage. I have no sex life with my husband because he's always tired and i have lost the intimacy that i used to have with him, how do i get that back? i dont know if i still love him? I want to feel the way i did about him years ago....we have 3 children and he's a good father, i have been on the internet and talking to this other man, im getting closer to him emotionally that my feelings for my husband are withering away, i dont know what to do?
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reader, petina1 +, writes (7 December 2008):
 I've known my partner for over 30 years, whenever i feel like this i book a cheap B&B away to the coast. We have a walk along the beach on our own and we talk. This always helps to be out of the situation at home and just the two of us. I don't know if this will work for you but it might be worth a try just to get some one to one away from it all. Could be a small step in the right direction. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): After having three children u r in a position where u r trying to b in a relatioship with someone unknown on the net.Better u talk to ur husband directly as to why he is tired and not able to perform his duties. Might be that he is doing that extra bit at the office to get u all a better tomorrow and today. Don't be selfish by sidelining him. Communication with ur husband will definitely ease the situation. Goog luck.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Please stop communication with this other man on the internet. It's definitely not going to help your current relationship. Where communication needs to be taking place is between you and your husband. What isn't working? When did it stop working, and what changed? If you can identify the source(s) of the problems you and your husband can work together to resolve them. You owe it to your husband, children, and marriage vows to give this a shot. Involve a counselor if necessary--it's a lot better alternative than letting emotion die in your marriage while pining for another man. Good luck =]
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