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writes:hi, im having a problem with this girl i know, i dont know if she likes me or not but im getting mixed signals all the time, i go off her then once i see her again at the weekend, something happens and im in love with her again it seems.About 6 month ago i first saw her on a night out as i know her cousin, her sister came over and pointed at this girl and said she fancied me, i was like.. ok. then the weeks went by and we started talking. She was with her friends dancing and i was at the other side of the dance floor but then someone grabbed my arse i turned round to see it was her as she hurried back to her mates, then her mate came over and said again that she fancied me. i asked for this girls number, started txtin her but then she messes with my head by not txtin me back to some of my messages. then i saw her last night when she had been having a few drinks and she said i looked beautiful and she loved me then she walked away but she was with a lad who was getting close to her so i have no idea where i stand with her, any help? should i go for it and ask her out?
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reader, Helpmeplease123  +, writes (21 October 2007):
Hey again. It sounds like you like this girl and all girls are different but yep id definitely say she likes you. I would never approach a guy i liked but she is trying 2 get your attention. Like i said before, she sounds like she has a lot of guys so you have to win her over somehow.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 I think she likes you but she doesn't know if you like her. We girls don't like to make the first move so we wait for the guy. But if they guy doesn't make a move, we try to do things to make sure they know we are interested. Sometimes even this isn't enough if a guy is very unsure of himself. We've been conditioned to believe that if we make the first move then the guy will think less of us. Therefore, you need to make the move. If she does turn you down then you will know that she was just playing you (and you don't want her then) AND you will know you can move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks i know what you mean. I say i go off her but i only mean that because i feel that im the only one making the effort as she dosent respond but then see her at the weekend, she dosent have to say or shoiut anything to me at all but she chooses to, this is why i dont know if she likes me or not. in your opinion, would you say she does from being a girl, i mean, you girls are hard to understand sometimes.
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reader, Helpmeplease123 +, writes (21 October 2007):
Sounds like shes really craving males attention. Although she definitely seems to be fond of you, the fact that she doesnt reply to your msgs makes me think that she probably has a lot of other guys at her feet. I think you have to ask yourself would you really want to be with someone who messes you about like this? However, if you still want to get to know this girl, just msg her casually and if she shows interest ask her out! Goodluck and dont let this play on your mind too much x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks i know what you mean. I say i go off her but i only mean that because i feel that im the only one making the effort as she dosent respond but then see her at the weekend, she dosent have to say or shoiut anything to me at all but she chooses to, this is why i dont know if she likes me or not. in your opinion, would you say she does from being a girl, i mean, you girls are hard to understand sometimes.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 October 2007):
 If you're sure you want her. I mean, you say she sends you mixed messages and in the same sentence you admit to going off her when you don't see her for a while. Last time you saw her, her behaviour was a challenge... a come get me and don't let this guy have me. Work out what you want and if you do want her it's time to show her or tell her or something.
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reader, vixie +, writes (21 October 2007):
 hi im in the same kind of situation with a boy at the moment you should write her a letter explaining everything how much she means to you just tell her everything and if shes not interested then i guess its hard but try and move on what have you got to lose go for it and good luck
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