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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I don't think I have feelings for my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 3 months and we were pretty good friends before that. He has an amazing personality and he's fun, but I'm just not physically attracted to him. I'm not nervous or excited when we're together. My heart never beats faster and I dont have passion for him when I'm around him; though I'm totally comfortable. When we kissed for the first time I didn't feel anything, it didn't seem great at all. I even felt bad. It is actually getting worse for me by time! I don't want him around me anymore. I don't like him to kiss me. I don't feel like holding his hands.I have even talked honestly about my feelings to him and I told him that this confusion is hurting me but he seems pretty happy with all these things! he says he likes me and the way I am very much, and that feelings may develop!how much being in love is important in a relationship!? I am a person who believe in and has experienced a love at the first (or second!) sight.can really passion and love develope in time!?I have given this "relationship" 3 months till now. should I take more time!? I feel very confused. I don't understand why this is happening to me. I want to have feelings for him, but I'm not sure if it's possible to develop feelings for someone over time or if I should just stop pretending and end the relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Well, I waited 7 years for the feeling to develop and they never had. I wasted all that time. So, think of it this way.
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