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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Long story short, I have almost no feeling in my clitoris. I can and do get aroused, but trying to masturbate results in slim to nothing. Currently I'm still a virgin, but since I want to have sex, this is a huge issue. Could the problem get better when I have someone else doing it for me [I've noticed this is the case in other aspects.. for example, I'm not ticklish or responsive to pain unless, say, someone tickles me or one of my pets bites] or should I just stay away from men from now on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): I can't be of much help on this, except to point out that it's impossible for anyone to tickle themselves... it has something to do with the lack of control and the surprise element...You may simply have a clitoris that's not highly sensitive to touch. Hopefully, you can develop other sexual responses that will allow you to have a fulfilling and happy sex life. It's possible that you can develop your g-spot such that you can have g-spot orgasms. You don't mention it, but when you masturbate, are you using your fingers or a vibrator. You may want to purchase a high quality vibrator. The Hitachi magicwant (availbe at most pharmacys) is a great one. There are some really good ones avalible on-line, but with quality comes cost. Avoid the cheap ones... lube is important as well, and worth the cost.Relax, and know that one day (likely soon) you'll meet a person who wants a relationship with you, and will enjoy learning how to please you. Everyone's body is different!
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