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writes:So here is the results,once again in 2011 I still haven't had any luck with girls,still don't have a clue what its like to be dating,be in a relationship or being loved,and yes I'm still a virgin.. you know its really hard to be in love alone and longing for people who don't really understand how you feel or who don't really give a damn.. You can say I have a wierd life,one of my friends thought so,he even told me I'm gonna die young.Well I believe that if I havent had a heart I would have lived life without any regrets and fear of my actions to anything or anyone,because caring is one way for me to fall under the shadow of people who are selfish and who don't give back the love they have received.. luck I know you gonna say focus on my my work or school or whatever,but let me tell you the are lot of people who have nothing and living poor but because they have love for one another they are happy.thats what I desire,to be with the one I love and to show my affection and desire for her,Will I ever have that?
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 Get rid of ur pessimistic a**hole friend. He wont encourage you if anything judge you. No one deserves that kid.
Now first things first what r u doing to attract women? Start by dressing well n appropriately. Next time ur out to a club where a tie n slacks. A good combo. No lame s***. Get on it man. Chicks will see u. Then theyll be curious about ur personality. Coffee shop drug store book stores. Make IT a mission to find women. Thats helped me focus on my game big time. Heck i carry condoms on me when im out just for that psychological boost. Ill refer u to david d angelo nice guy turned mmm semi nice in order to attract ladies n he has had renowned success. Google him. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2011): Well go after her and tell her how you fee!! Life is for living, if you came on here and she rejected you we could help you through it, but sorry there is nothing we on dearcupid can say to help you..... you have to help yourself.You like a girl, so pursue her, tell her you like her, let her know you are interested, you can't fear rejection all your life. If you never try you will definitely never know, I know I would want to know so I could get on with my life. Im sorry but its something you just have to get over, its part of life, like your first time doing anything, the first time you rode a bike, first time you sit behind the wheel of a car.How do you ever expect to propose to a girl if you can't overcome show your feelings. People will reject you, people will love you. Thats life! Nobody is going to take you by the hand and say heres your girl, or magically drop the girl of your dreams into your lap. So get out there and make it happen.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 I understand you are frustrated and seeking love, but we do not have a crystal ball. We can't promise you it will ever happen.
But I can promise you that rarely does love drop from the sky and land on your head. You have to put yourself out there, flirt, learn how to flirt, learn how to attract the attention from the woman you like, learn to know her, learn to know women. It takes PRACTICE, and you can't sit on your bum and expect it to land on your head.
What are you doing to get love into your life? Are you taking control over the situation and doing anything about it?
Also, you are 20. You are NOT that old. There are tons of people, both men and women, who haven't dated or kissed or had a partner yet at that age. So don't complain, be patient, and actively seek out a healthy love interest.
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