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I have loved her from afar. How do I meet her?

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Question - (26 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 February 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Desperately need help!

I’m Tim and I’ve just turned 26.

I work in a corner shop.

I don't get paid very much but heck I don't care.

I didn't offer my services to get paid, I wanted to see her.

I know her name now.

Tina.

Doesn’t it sound heavenly?

I keep on saying it out aloud, it's easy to say, you just put your tongue on the roof of your mouth and let it drop a little.

I love saying it; it’s wonderful, beats all the other names.

One day, I was out walking the dog – Mr Big. When I saw her coming out of the corner shop and it was love at first sight, I was amazed at how beautiful she looked.

She probably knows she looks beautiful.

Dad would say that she's a real looker.

Anyway, she was clutching a packet of custard creams; she walked past me and gave me a little smile. I watched her walk off until she turned the corner. I thought about following her but that would make me a creep.

For a couple of weeks I saw her go in and out of the corner shop, a couple of times I even followed her. She lives a couple of streets down from me.

I persuaded the corner shop fella to take me on, he agreed and I’ve been working there for quite a bit, now.

I see her emorning, getting either custard creams or bourbons.

She passes the biscuit packet to me and I always seem to hold it for a little while and feel it, her hands were on it and I like the bourbons and creams now because her fingers have been on it and I feel a little closer. She gives me the money and in the process her fingers brush lightly against my palm and I get excited because I have been touched by her.

God, I love her.

I don’t know what I should do.

I don’t know if she has a boyfriend – probably has.

I want her but I don’t know how to approach her.

I feel unhappy, uneducated and unloved.

Her birthday is coming up (Overheard her friend mention it when they where in the shop) and I am thinking of buying her a mystery card but I don’t know what to write.

Does this sound alright?

'Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?

Thou art lovelier and more temperate'

But I think it sounds clichéd.

I suppose in old Will’s time this might have sounded different and original but it’s been used too much.

I want to make her fall in love with the card; she probably has hundreds of men sending her cards with bad poetry.

I need help.

This site probably isn’t the best sight to get advice but I’ll give it a go!

Many thanks to all who respond.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntOk not to sound incredibly rude but you gotta a real stalker thing going on,girls dont like being followed and having complete strangers finding out where they live.

Just talk to her strike up a freindly conversation and build up from there talk to her everyday and after a while when the time feels right ask her out forget about the annonimous card she might think its from someone she knows. Just build up a conversation and go from there

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008):

oops!

Seem to have put female instead of male and wrong age!

Sorry.

Tim

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntHow come your post says female 16-17 years old, Tim?

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