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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years now, we've always been a little shaky because I have serious trust issues, possibly from what has happened to me in the past. I don't trust any men whatsoever. This morning I logged onto his AIM and found he had an email, It was very flirtatious from someone in Hawaii, basically saying I miss you, I'm thinking about you, and Cant wait till you come here to have a coconut with me. I couldn't help my first reaction to come front him about it, so I went to his work and asked him. He claimed he had no idea how his ex-coworker who transfered there got his email and that he wasn't going up there to see her. I turned away and went to work hardly knowing what to think or believe. I do trust that he didn't cheat on me, but why would she send the email if he didn't show her any type of affection or even communication as he says. Confused- please help! =/
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reader, love-him  +, writes (11 June 2007):
 I know many people who see this as being wrong (wat im bout 2 say) but my boyfriend had a similar email..and i emailed her back asking who she was (on my account) and it turned out she was a russian person who had found my boyfriends email on an old dating site he used to be on.. i suggest you email her in secret, maybe make another email account and dont give her ur name so she cant talk to ur bf bout it.. sorry it sounds sneaky but im just going from wat i did.. hope i helped babi.. mail me if u wana talk x x x
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