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female
age
36-40,
*ce queen
writes:Hi, im 19yrs old and still a virgin. im beginining to think that i'll never lose it, i don't believe in getting married before havig sex. i have had plenty of opportunities to lose it, but for some reason i always get scared and withdraw. i just want to get it over and done with, but i think the thought of the pain makes me pull back+am not exactly confident with my body when im naked. pls tell me what to do?.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (10 January 2008):
 Having sex for the first time hurts, but only for a little bit. Or it only hurt a little bit for me. Once It's in everything is fine and it doesn't hurt =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): Ok so heres a females opinion...lol.
Yes, the first time you have sex it does hurt. But its not that unbearable!! Well it wasnt for me anyway. You have to expect some pain...but believe me its a pain you will forget easily. Dont rush into sex anyway just to lose your virginity. Wait for the right person. You will know deep down when you are ready ..and your worries about being naked will pass. And the important thing is to feel comfortable with the person you are with...and relax. Take it slowly. Ask your partner to be gentle!!
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (8 January 2008):
 ok i;m gonna tell you a secret.guys and pigs.when it comes to sex. the vast majority don't care.example. " OH MY GOD. I'M GONNA GET LAID"then the second head fills with blood and takes over.The Engines running but theres no one behind the wheel.Seriously.. don't worry about it i know that seems like a crappy answer but. its true. most guys don't care. most just care about getting laid.
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