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anonymous
writes:Hi readers! I'm 14/female ; And i have strange feelings for my best friend, we are so sweet, we understand each other, sometimes she even skipped class just to see me. Is it right to think that she also have feelings for me?Ok! here is the real thing, i really need advices.My best friends name is Karen, and she have a cousin names Yen.Yen wrote a letter for me sayin' : I like you! and i do have a crush for you.-i replied and said. Ok! let's keep this a secret. I don't want your cousin KAREN know about this, and so we kept it as secret.One day. Karen knew about it! and called me. She is really angry not with me but with her cousin yen.I have feelings for two cousins and they are both girls like me, this is horrible! I'm straight and i just don't know why i feel this!! Please help.
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Okay, where to start,First of all, you are only young, you are going through the stages of puberty, alongside all of the physical changes, there is a lot of mental changes going on in your body, and to have a question mark over feelings for someone of the same sex, is completely normal at your age, although most people do not admit to it, bear that one in mind.In relation to the letter you got from Yen, i think you should speak to her about it, ask her what it means, you never know, you could have misread it totally, or it could mean exactl what you think, either way, its best to get it cleared up, so theres no embarrasing misunderstandings, my best friend is gay, and he sent me a txt a while back telling me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me, i didnt know what to do, but when i spoke to him about it, it turned out he sent it to me by accident, it was meant for a guy he had been seeing, so panic over.Its hard to tell weather your feeling the way you do because you have recived this letter from yen, or because you are genuinly confused, if its because of the letter, then that may be because your feeling flattered, and wanted, even if it is by another girl, so ask her, and you will find the answers you are looking for.Do you have a crush on any boys? is there an attraction to boys in general? if not, then you may be a girls girl so to speak, but no advice in the world could help you decide that, one phrase i live by is FOLLOW YOUR HEART, you will find that it will lead you where your supposed to be.dont make any rash decisions, let your heart lead you in the right direction.If you do want further advice on the gay scene, or being gay, just pull up your local authority website, like the council, or direct.gov, and type in search for youth advice groups, they will put you in touch with support networks, and people just like yourself.Good Luck
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