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writes:Im in a bad situation.I have been with my boyfriend for almost eight years and we have two kids together. I love him but I dont know if im in love anymore. I cheated on him with his brother almost two years ago. He found out about it and he still wanted to be together also I got pregnant. sometimes I wonder if thats the only reason he stayed with me.Then about three months ago me and my boyfriend got in a fight. I went to his sister house for the weekend and his brothe lives there. We started talking but we didnt do anything. Since then we have been talking and seeing eachother. I care about both of them and I dont want to hurt anybody. Their brothers and they havent talked in two years. I feel bad but I cant help how I feel. Sometimes I want to give his brother a chance but i dont know how that would affect my kids. I didnt talk to his brother for almost two years because i wanted to work things out with his brother and try to keep our fanily together. then the feelings started again once i seen him. Also their twins but so different. My boyfriend brothers knows everything about me and knows how to treat me because he was always around us. So he knows what not to do and he makes me feel special. This whole situation started with my boyfriend and my bestfriend. My boyfriend told his brother something and then he told me that he did something with my bestfriend. The truth never came out and then that open the door for his brother to tell me how he felt. He says he had these feelings for me ever since me and his brother started dating. What should I do. Ever since my boyfriend brother text him last week about how he felt about me. he has been asking me to marry him and move away. i dont know if thats fake or not. he did ask me to marry him two years ago after i got pregnant and found out about me and his brother.I said yes because I thought we could start fresh. This time I dont belive him . the only reason he asked me the first time was to keep me away from his brother. I need some help.
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reader, Dazed_and_Confsued +, writes (2 December 2009):
I think for the sake of your kids and your boyfriend and his brother, leave it alone. Maybe even leave both of them alone romantically. The whole situation seems very messed up. Mommy's dating uncle so and so... You can find someone else who makes you feel special.
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reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (2 December 2009):
 i think that its just a fling
like when you are in a relationship with someone
and then you meet a boy who could of had been a good mate
it gets you excited..that excitement gets confuse with like
if you love your husband/bf
just dont see his brother in that sort of manner
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