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female
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36-40,
*eximami
writes:Well i have feelings for this older guy he's 46 and i am 21. But him and my boyfriend are friends and live together. I have no idea what to do i find the older man very interesting. I enjoy talking to him i always smile when he's around. We've talked about a lot of stuff and i'm so eager to learn more. It's so messed up because i don't feel this way about my boyfriend. My boyfriend does not keep me interested at all and i don't really enjoy talking to him anymore. Is it something wrong with me?! I don't know what to think i often stay up at night crying thinking about the older man. I don't know if he can tell that i have feelings for him. He said he likes talking to me and i told him that i like talking to him as well. Any advice any one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): You could ask him to take a walk with you, in a park or at the beach. While you walk you could get to know him better and see how ridiculous it might be to pursue the relationship. I am 47 and adore a teenage girl who is my daughter's friend. I could marry her tomorrow, I just love her personality and it isn't looks, she is cute but not great. I just feel comfortable around her and when I hear her voice my heart melts. But, our worlds are so far apart.
Just tell him like a joke and see if he talks you out of it. From, Widowed but okay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): It will never work! My daughter went through almost the same thing, except the age difference was 'only' 17 years. Now she is a single mom :-( with his child.
There are too many differences between people's energy and experiences and life in general. Once you get past the initial attraction, problems present themselves. You are best too stick with someone closer to your age, maybe not your current boyfriend, but someone else.
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