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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Bit of a tricky question and not really sure if there is even an answer out there...I'm bisexual, but usually prefer guys. I'm picky about guys as it is, but super picky about girls, so when I meet a girl who ticks all the boxes, I seem to just want to talk to her loads and spend time with her and go out with her and everything - when I fall for girls I fall really hard. That's what happened lately.I have this female friend. We've known eachother for about 8 months. She's a lesbian, and I've always thought she was gorgeous. She's totally my type. But always since I've known her she's had a long term girlfriend, so I've never really pursued anything. Anyways about 3 weeks ago her and her gf broke up. Obviously I was there for her and everything; shes my friend and thats what friends do, but at the back of my mind i was thinking that now was my chance to try and be with her. We started spending more time together - having lunch together, sending emails back and forth and i was starting to think we might be becoming close enough to maybe go out on a proper date. But then one day she came in looking all happy and I asked her what was up and she said her and her ex gf had got back together.I dont what to do. I feel as if i've really fell for her, but only cos I thought her relationship with her gf was 100% over - I didnt think they'd get backtogether. Do I tell her how i feel, or do I just back away? I really want things to be out in the open because its driving me mad, but I dont want to upset her if shes truly happy being back with her gf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): This kinda thing always hurts i feel for you babe.
If your seriously hung up about this and you can trust her, id tell her that you were interested in her and that you were maybe hoping to start something BUT that you respect her relastionship and her girlfriend and that you just need to get things off your chest and youd never do anything to jepordise your friendship etc. That way she will understand your feelings but also realise that your a friend and want her to be happy.
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