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writes:it's a strange situation that i have brought upon myself. i've been single now since october and my sex drive has reached an all-time high. i'm friends with some guy and i think i like him. we are always playing around...physically and we like to touch each other in certain ways and so on. its not out of disrespect that he touches me that certain way but because we're really comfortable with each other. and i dont think i ever noticed that i was also physically attracted to him when we had moments when we would "grind" against each other...it made my heart jump. he's very out-spoken and he tells people and me of how much he would like to have sex with me. and one of the times i found out that he masturbated to me...it was a shocking confession. now i had daily dreams about him and i cant stop thinking of him. but, my problem is that he has a girlfriend. and i know so much stuff about her that could end their relationship...but i dont have the heart to tell him. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know.
The thing is also is that I stop myself...every single time and I mention her and he stops...I do think of her and I don't want to hurt her. He says that he wants to break up with her but he can't find a reason to tell her. I'm thinking that he's scared...I don't want to carry on like this. And I have confronted him about what he wants and he says he doesn't know so he's not making any sudden moves...ugh....its confusing.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 How would you feel if you were his girfriend, would you want another girl grind herself against your boyfriend.
If you believe in Karma, what goes around, comes around.
You may be allowing your sex drive to express to much as this guy is making himself available to you.
Don't mean to be harsh with you but if you both really like eath other then be with eath other but do not hurt an innocent third party, it is not fair on this girl, she does not know she is competing with you.
Talk to this guy and decide what you both really want.
Hope you do the right thing.
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