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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy in my class and when we first met we got along really well. We still do now 7 months down the line and I have developed a huge crush on him. The thing is I am getting mixed messages from him. Sometimes he is really flirtatious and then others he doesn't seem interested.What should I do? I just feel at the moment that I want to say how I feel but I know that could totally ruin our friendship. He makes me smile and is a great guy and I don't want to lose him as a friend.Am I doomed for the playlist of my life to be stuck on 'hot 'n' cold' by katy perry??? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): Aren't crushes fun? Oh the excitement....will he do this, why won't he do that, what do you think it all means?
Crushes aside, no your life will not be stuck on Hot n Cold, because one day a guy who knows what he wants will be in your life. Until then just enjoy crushin and stay friends with this guy. Don't tell him how you feel just yet, let him do that...give him some time and if nothing else you have a great friend which is better than a romance that will end in a couple of months any way...maybe.
Friendship is the basis for all romanitc relationships any way and by building that bond with him he may just start to have those romantic crush like feelings for you too....but you can't hurry love...you've heard that right.
So just chill out and have fun and enjoy your crush and don't focus too too much on him and what he is doing and why, you will drive yourself nuts and wear a hole in the floor where you are pacing daily......
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