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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for four years now. Over christmas we went to her family house. Her sister whom is 26 and I'm 23 is always very pleasent to me. I have always fantacised about her. I would love to have sex with her. I know that I could never do it but because it is so wrong it excites me. Over christmas she did some things that I'm not sure I understand. With my gf in the room she asked me to rub her back and since I have such a hard time saying no I rubbed her back and massage her neck. Then my gf,her sister and I had to sleep in the same room due to other relatives staying in the same house. I slept by myself but the sister told me that I should sleep in my boxers because she did not mind. The very next day while I was sleeping my gf when out and her sister was playing with her cousins daughter when she climbed under the covers with me. I thought it was unusual but dismissed just as quick because i just though she was being playful and does not think of me in any sexual way. Nothing happened while I layed there and she way playing hide and seek with her cousins child. I just wanted to know if anyone thinks she has other intentions and if i should approach her about what she was trying to do.thanks.
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reader, Jaid +, writes (14 May 2008):
Just tell her sister that you get uncomfortable, and you are having these thoughts, and your don't want to mess anything up between to family. Trust me, if you've known her for four years she won't give you a hard time and understand its for you and her sisters well-being. Plus, it doesn't close the door with her if you break up with your gf.
Sorry im kidding about that last part.
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (4 March 2007):
 I think your girlfriends sister is getting too close for comfort. Wether she's doing it innocently or intentionally, there is a line you draw when it is your sister's boyfriend. Please stay away from her and don't do anything to encourage her behaviour. Resist all temptation and remind yourself why you are with your girlfriend and not her sister. Please don't talk to either of them about this because all you'll end up doing is creating tension and rivalry between two sisters and damaging their relationship. You'll make your girlfriend feel insecure and she'll start comparing herself to her sister and start viewing her as unwanted competition. (trust me I have been in a similar situation with my sister and it's not good). I know you don't want to do that, so please keep this to yourself. Also because you like her sister you may be reading into her actions too much and magnifying her every move. Avoid her as much as possible and try to remember who your girlfriend is and why you got with her in the first place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): she was just flirting with you,dont be a fool and destroy your relationship or the sisters relationship as you will be the loser
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