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reader, Angle79  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 Cheat on your husband will destroy your marriage life! why do you want fun with other man if your husband is loving and caring. Why bother being withsome who cheats on his wife? - He is just playing my dear.
Don't do it my dear if you still want a healthy and good marriage! -- Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008):
have The GUTS to tell your husband what you want to do,
why should we strangers tell you to go behind your husbands back and cheat on him and probably hurt him, would this make you feel better if we say yes? Go have your fun, i am all for fun but not at the EXPENSE of others. You have no justification because you have not experienced other men...DIVORCE if you want to get rid of your husband then go and have any man you can get. CHEATING STINKS and nothing justifies it...and you may one day be on the end of the same question one day? stinks!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Sorry but you should have thought about this before you got married.
If you were not satisfied with your experiences in life than you should have got engaged.
You should not cheat. Not if your marriage is good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): No way should you cheat. You may think that it seems fun but in the end there is always trouble. If you love your husband and respect him you shouldn't even think about these kind of things. If you get together with this other guy remember he might cheat on you, he obviously has no respect for his wife!
You should forget about the other guy and conentrate on your relationship with your husband.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 You will have your couple of hours of fun and excitement, but then you have to come back to reality....its really not worth it in the long run. Talk to your husband tell him your not feeling special etc try and work on why your having these feelings!
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Why are you asking such a stupid question??? Of course you shouldnt go and cheat for fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): You have some serious problems; according to the information supplied by yourself; you are only "recently" married and already you are looking for some FUN outside the marriage.
I suggest you refrain from the OUTSIDE FUN; talk to your husband and if need be bring the FUN and the SPARK back into your marriage.
If need be get professional help; get marriage counselling.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Sure why not? People with no moral compass are capable of doing most anything for self-gratification no matter who might get hurt.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 are you serious?? why would you want to hurt your husband like that? do you not enjoy his company anymore? i think you need to ask yourself wat you're not getting from your marriage that is making you look elsewhere for another lover.
and no you should not cheat and have some fun. this man has cheated on his wife a few times - wat kind of a person must he be to be unfaithful and lie to the woman he married more than once? he is obviously untrustworthy and to be honest sounds like a slimy jerk - why would you want to sleep with someone like that?
i think that if you are having problems in your marriage keep them within it and dont being someone else in to fix them - never works. you need to talk to your husband if you are feeling unsatisfied.
to be honest, i am made question whether or not you really love him if you are willing to go out and have "Fun" with some guy you met on the net.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): no, it's not ok to cheat on someone. How would you feel if your husband did this to you? If you want to see what it's like with another man, divorse your husband first!
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