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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi my name is suga and i am 18, i've been with my boyfriend for a while. we been trying to have sex but the problem is i get lot of pain in my vagina when he enters me which i can not take that pain. what advice can you give me. plz help
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 First, see your gynecologist to make sure everything is all right with you. Then, if you check out fine, make sure you have condoms with lubrication on them.
When you start sexual activity, don't worry about anything but exploring each other's bodies and enjoy the feelings of closeness. I would suggest that you set a goal for each other to be close in this way for three or more times before you try intercourse again. You can pleasure each other with your mouths and hands and not worry about penetration for a little while.
I have found with myself that I am most ready for intercourse after I have had an orgasm initially. Then I am relaxed and lubricated and want to feel him inside me.
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