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I have a higher sex-drive than him. Will it affect his work?

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Question - (23 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

im in a very good relationship with a man who I really love. theres a couple of problems when it comes to sex though.

Firstly he is very adventurous in bed which I find a real turn on but hes afraid to share because he thinks as he is quite a lot older than me, Ill agree because I think as hes older he must know best. This is completely wrong. How can i make it clear i want to be adventurous too and im not just following him?

Secondly, I have a much higher sex drive than him and just being with him in bed is too much of a turn on to just go to sleep. Im worried that its starting to annoy him as work makes him really tired.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007):

After orgasming once, most men will not want to continue having sex. Men get much more tired after sex than women do. You have to respect that. Talk to him and find out how he feels about your sex drive.

If he's hesitent to be "adventurous" with you, maybe you should initiate it with your own ideas. If he sees it coming from you enough I would think he would know it's not his influence.

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