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I have a hand and foot fetish, but she doesn't measure up. Should I settle for what I've got?

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Question - (25 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi please help im desperately seeking help.im so depresed.my problem is i am i hand and foot guy.love french manicures and pedicures make me go wild.it only gets me aroused.so im with my girlfrien for 2yrs.i have tried to get her to grow her nails to the normal avarge length of womans nails.she has a nail biting habit.well she could never do that.her feet are ok but not hot.and her legs have no shape.should i think of still going on with the relationship.i mean i doubt i would ever get aroused to my max without pretty hands and feet.i love her so thats why im ignoring that her hands feet legs arent sexy.but im unhappy.is it worth over looking physical attraction and be make peace with what i have.we are good together.should i trade my greatest desire and happyness and settle for avarage.thanx mwah!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

How can you call anyone you love average?

so her hands aren't perfectly manicured . would it be better if she had perfect hands and feet and treated you

like crap? True love is hard to find don't throw it away

because you have unrealistic expecations about what a woman should look like.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

It sounds like you don't fancy her much, if at all. Is the love now turning into more of a friendship? Then you should end it. But it also seems that your too critical on your fetishes , maybe a sign that your becoming too obsessed by your requirements and you should think a bit more of personality

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