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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): Any other ideas from anyone? Sorry but I want to be sure that I do the right thing
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (5 September 2011):
 If she has a fantasy for doing it, then tell her that you are interested in it and you find it sexy.
She will go from hmmm to "I need to change my underwear".
Trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): I agree that we could maybe have complications. I don't want to sleep with this other woman but thanks for pointing out she may like it better. She hasn't had an experience with another girl before but I'm really unsure what to do. Do I take that risk or go on knowing she's curious behind my back? I would prefer if we did it as a married couple instead of secrets. Thank you all for trying to help me I appreciate it
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (4 September 2011):
 Let her know what she thinks about that and go from there. But be careful because three-somes that involve married couples sometimes dont go as the married couple thought it would go.
I dont know if she had experienced sex with another woman or not. If not you can have a small complication such as she will enjoy sex with another woman more than sex with you...
Think this through. Most men have same fantasy. But in my opinion married people should have sex only with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2011): Well I have asked her about her bi curious status before and she said she used to be yet I find these sites, should I be worried or is this something I should approach with open arms?
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (4 September 2011):
 I think you should let her know your feelings so you can see if she's open to the possiblity of exploring with a woman. There's nothing wrong with sharing things like this with your wife and you shouldn't feel scared to. So talk to her about it and if she happens to not be up for it, then respect her wishes.
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