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writes:I have a crush on one of my friends. She is really nice and very very pretty. She has only been in a couple short relationship's as long as i've known her. She has made cute commments about being "lesbian" for me although I never took her serious. Don't get me wrong im not a lesbian and neither is she, but she would be one girl I would date in a heart beat. I smile when I see her and I love being around her. The problum is she has no clue how I feel about her and I'm afraid if I do tell her.Something might come between us.-Needs lots of input. Thanks!
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reader, hojo1114  +, writes (19 June 2011):
you and this girl are clearly wanting to be more than friends,so dont let anything stop you from being happy after all u cant help who you fall for
hope all goes well xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): I do not like labels either. I am almost 30 and have dated men for 27 years of my life. I went to the local gay bar and met the love of my life. I do not think of myself as a lesbian although everyone I know does, even the people who have known me all my life. I try to explain how I feel and the best way is, I have a label one I have had for almost 30 years, if you want to call me anything call me Emily. It is the best lableel that describes who I am. As for your problem, well I never saw myself in a relationship with a woman. But I must say that I was immediatly attracted to my wife and I am glad that I traveled "unknown waters". If you are both attracted to each other go for it! If it makes the two of you more comfortable set some ground rules like maybe no sex until you know the relationship is right for both of you. Plus a good book to read is Dear John, I love Jane it is real women telling their stories about leaving the man in their lives for a woman. Granted you may think it is not relevent, but it is a good book. I know one thing is for sure.....I have never regretted asking my wife out to dinner for the first time, NEVER. Life is all about the regret factor.....if you are going to regret asking her then don't, but if you would regret NOT asking her then go for it. Life is too short and Love is beautiful! Good luck!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 June 2011):
 Well if you're worried about the label, don't let a gay or straight label stop you from going after someone you really like. As for telling her, you need to do a bit of fishing/flirting to see where she stands. The "being lesbian for you" thing sounds very promising, as often times jokes like that mean they want to see what your reaction is. So you should occasionally do the same, joke around to see what her reaction is, whether you should talk to her about it.
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