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I have a co-worker, he's 30, I'm 19, he flirts with me all the time, he has told me about his girlfriend, I don't know how to act around him, I don't want to have an affair, but how should I behave?

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Question - (8 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think this guy that I work with likes me. I am 19 and he is 30. He is always staring at me and trying to be funny around me and make me laugh. He constanly is hanging around me whenever he can and is always asking me questions about stuff about me. I think he's nice looking and wouldnt mind going out with him but he has a girlfriend. His myspace says he's single (which is really weird) but he's metioned his gf once when he was talking to me. So if he really does like me, he probably wants to have an affair but i dont know. I know its bad to get involved with coworkers so I dont think that I would. My question is how should I act around him? Should I flirt with him and tease him or should I just be like standoffish?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

There is nothing wring with a little flirtation... but in this instance I think he could take it the wrong way and if he is a big an asshole as he seems to me then he will willingly cheat on his girlfriend with you.

And if he does that to one, he can do it to another.

He sounds like a player... I'd be steering as clear as possible away from this jackass and towards someone who trully deserves you.

Flynn 24

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

My advice is to be as Honest as the day is Long. If he is commited to someone, then you need to head for the mountains (Leave,and don't come back... at least until he is single and ready to commit unto you My Sweet Heart. All my love, Sweetie!!

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