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I hate my life, my family is poor, I broke out the windows at school, when I was drunk, told my best friend, she told the principal, now I have to pay for the windows, why did my friend tell on me?

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Question - (8 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I hate my life (all the teachers hate at my school my guts) . My family is poor (we don't have a lot things). One night I got so drunk that I broke most of the windows at my school with baseball bat. I can barely remember it.

When told one of friends Hannah (not her real name) who I trust with everything she told the principal, some teachers and her parents. Now I have pay for all the windows I broke (I which is going take awhile). What her problem?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (8 August 2008):

I think she did it because she asked advice on here about 2 days ago about what to do and most people told her to tell on you for your own good.

I think she was scared about having someone for a friend who would get so violent.

Yes your life is crap. You are a teenager. All the best people I know had a crap time at your age. The people who ran round school being popular and having fun generally have never moved on from that stage.

Man up, pay for the windows and look at your family. They may be poor but you have the opportunity not to be poor. If you work hard at school then you can get further in life. I know it sounds stupid but it's true.

Go to your careers person and ask what trades get paid well and then work on getting accepted into that. Plumbers and electricians don't have the most exciting job in the world but they generally drive brand new BMWs.

I'm advising trades because most other things mean staying on and doing more school, where as you can find an apprenticeship as soon as you leave.

Also, I think you should go and take up boxing or something like that so you have a punchbag to take your anger out on rather than something you have to pay for.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

You're a whiny brat, that's her problem. Make if you spent less time moaning and complaining about how sh*t your life is and actually do something to make it better then your friends wouldn't dislike you enough to grass on you.

All your friends see is you complaining about how rubbish your life is and then messing up your education so your future will be rubbish too. If you want things to change then you have to make it happen. Your life will be ten times worse when you leave school with no qualifications and end up in dead end job, drinking yourself to death every night. Silly girl.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

You think your life is bad?

At least you CAN go to school, you selfish twat. There are millions of people, better then you by the sound of it, who would give anything to be where you are.

So shut up, study hard and stop being a whining little bitch and maybe you just might get somewhere in life.

And as for the windows... serves you right, you little shit. You break school property you deserve to be dobbed in by what is probably the only real friend you have.

Flynn 24

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

dont say u hate ur life..u have no idea wat i went through every single dayy it was misseryy i wanted to kill myself but i thought about it a while and i relized that god wanted me to be here thats why he brought me here in this world..u might hate ur life but things will get better

sometimes u have to go through a wrong road and get lost then find urself and a way get yourself in a right way i alsso suggeest that u workk or get that money somehow

thats wat i had to do..and ur likie wat 13-15 u shouldnt be drinking expecually not AROUND school

and u have to realize who ur friends are that girl "hannah"doesnt really look likes shes a friend at all

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

Perhaps she is just a person who has a strong moral compas. You can't fault her for that. I myself am a person like that...If you don't want it told, then don't tell it to me. And it's not because I am a gossip, but because I can't stand it, if something is happining, that isn't suppost to. I praise God for that now, but in my youth, I found it as a hinderance. God Bless, My Brother in Christ, Please know how it turns out!!!

The, Gabber Jack

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