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*orthshore92
writes:I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. The problem is, however, that I'm attracted to girls. Originally I simply assumed that I was bi, but I'm realizing that I'm no longer attracted to my boyfriend. I love him and care about him, but I'm not attracted to him. Sometimes, I wish he was a girl. We're going off to college soon, and I want to figure things out before we leave. What should I do?
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reader, BenKuijper  +, writes (25 June 2011):
 In my opinion sexuality does not have strict boundaries and everything is not just black and white. There are also many tones of grey and during the life, people shift from phases to phases. This could be something temporary. The best way, I think, talking with him, as soon as possible, because as the time passes, this situation could become more harder to talk and get over for both of you.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (24 June 2011):
i would tell him the truth it is not fair on either of you
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reader, llifton +, writes (24 June 2011):
 you should break up with him.. of course, that's easier said than done. but if you're not into men, why pretend? you're only hurting yourself, and stringing him along.
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