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anonymous
writes: Im a 21 year old beautician. I am in a relationship with this handsome 22 year old guy, who I love so much! But i have a problem, which people might think is wrong. I LOVE watching lesbian porn. I tell myself im not a lesbian and I have a boyfriend. But I always seem to watch lesbian porn and I dream about sexual relationship with close girl friends. Another thing is about 1 year ago, when i wasnt with my boyfriend, I went to a lesbian bar, on my own, and ended up kissing another girl, and even ended up in bed with her, unclothed...Please can someone help... Am I a lesbian?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2011): The only reason I know I'm not bi or a lesbian is because I am disgusted by vaginas. I love every other part of women, but when it comes down to the sex part, I find penises intriguing and vaginas just gross.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo would it make me bi?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): Hey, if it feels right, just go with it. Don't label it. I don't know if your a lesbian, but who cares? You love your boyfriend, shouldn't that be enough?. If staying with your boyfriend feels right, than stay with your boyfriend. If being with a girl feels right, be with a girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011): If you love your current boyfriend, then should it matter? Even if you are attracted to women, would anything change in your relationship? I have a feeling you're not a lesbian, because I am a straight female who also shares your love for lesbian porn. Fantasies aren't a reality. I think everyone has the right to experiment and find out what they like. I came to the conclusion that I enjoyed watching lesbian porn simply because I could relate to both partners- I could place myself in either position and still find something to relate to. It's entirely natural and I don't think you should let it worry you too much!
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