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writes:I had a date on Tuesday and we got on really well... at the end of the date we kissed and had some heavy petting.I texted him (know I prob shouldn't have next day, saying 'you are lovely, and we were very naughty'. He texted back saying 'so were you and yes were were'... we swopped another text each... and after the last one I thought I'd leave it for him to contact me.It's now Friday and not heard a word... should I send him another text, or mail him... I really liked him and wonder if he's now doing the 3-day rule... I hate this waiting.Help me know what to do... or not to do! Thanks guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am 46 and he is 48.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): Can I ask how old are you and how old is he?
I had a similar experience, but we talk to each other every day!
Maybe try texting him and see what he thinks about it?
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reader, James_501 +, writes (15 May 2009):
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I agree with whats been said. Go with the flow!
Whatever you do though don't give too much away as it can be a bit of a turn-off to men. We tend to like the girl more if there is a thrill of a chase involved. Girls who show too much keeness rather than waiting can present themselves as less attractive even if they are attractive. Having said that he may be a bit shy himself and unsure of what to do.
If you haven't heard from him by sunday, maybe text him and ask him how his weekend is going. I would then leave it totally in his court. If he's interested, he'll want to see you again believe me. Good luck!
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reader, sammi star +, writes (15 May 2009):
 I think you're probably right about the 3 day rule thing. It's horrible not knowing though isn't it?! Don't text him just yet, wait for a few days.But, If you don't hear anything and you really like this man then you don't want to let pride stop you from making first contact. Text him something casual, just saying that you're free soon and wondered if he wanted to meet up, that way you've played your part and the balls in his court. Good luck! x
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